Strategies to keep balance and harmony in your home.
Negative energy also known as bad vibes can linger in your home without you knowing. Bad vibes are created by negative experiences that become blocked in the aura of people, animals and things. Before you let someone or something in your home, remove all the old negative experiences that have connected to them.
Bad Vibe Generators
Inviting Unfavorable Guests into the Home
This is the number one reason of why people have negative vibes in their home. Often we let our family into the home even though they are unkind to us or our immediate family. To have a home of harmony you need to meet your family members at restaurants or another neutral place, so there bad energy does not drift into your home and stay for undisclosed amount of time.
Ashes from a Deceased Loved One
The death of a loved one is very difficult and often we want to hold onto their ashes for comfort. Their ashes need to be freed to allow you to begin a new chapter in your life. As well, loved ones stay with us until we are ready to let go. As difficult as it is we must let their energy soar and this cannot happen if their ashes are enclosed in a container sitting on your fireplace.
Trophy Animals
Trophy animals should not be in the home. Yes, the person who killed the animal feels a victory but the dead animal is stagnant and dead energy.
Dried Flowers
Dried flowers are big business but they carry negative energy. Dried flowers are big dust collectors that need to be out of the home.
Gifts from Negative Family Members or Friends
Presents come in all sizes and shapes and we graciously accept all gifts. Only accept gifts given from the heart. Years ago, we had a housewarming party and everybody was kind enough to bring us a gift. However, a few of my husband's friends were not fond of me and every time I used their gifts I felt angry because their gift was not given with love. I have been donating all expensive and inexpensive gifts that are not given by the heart.
Other People's Junk
How many times has someone offered to give you their used sofa or some old books? Decline, decline and decline again. Often we accept the other people's junk because we fear not having enough. I accepted old jackets from a family member because I felt guilty if I did not accept. Sometimes it is okay to reuse items from friends but never accept out of fear.
Pictures Depicting Violence
Violence is prevalent in our society. We sell pictures of serial killers, car crashes and other disturbing events. No pictures in the home should depict violence.
Violent Music
Music can create harmony or chaos in the home. Violent music is about the sound and not always the words. Before you purchase music does it uplift, relax or make you feel chaotic and uncomfortable. You want music in the home that will inspire or relax the soul not create disequilibrium.
Stolen Items
Have you ever bought an item that fell off the back of the truck? As tempting as it may be it is the wrong thing to do because you save money but at what cost. The stolen items give off bad vibes because several people were affected by the item being sold. Only buy items you know come from a reputable source.
